It’s my own father who advises my husband to cheat on me

My dad struck a cordial relationship with my boyfriend which saw them hang out every now and then. Parents often give a prospective husband a long list of items to buy for the dowry but when it was time for us to get married, my dad didn't list anything for the family of my boyfriend. He said, "Bring whatever you have my boy. Even if you like, come empty-handed. I would give my daughter to you. She's my daughter and I say you can have her for free." We got married and the relationship between my dad and my husband grew even stronger. It's better with my own dad than friends who will influence him negatively. Then one weekend my dad came to visit while I was away. My dad: "My paddy enjoy oo. Take some. When you're stressed and can't sleep, it's always your wife who'll give you more stress. Just sneak into the house of the side chick and you realize all the stress would be no more.” "My Dad: Forget that one. When trouble comes right now, she'll bring it to me. If I'm the judge, do you think you can lose a case? Just play your cards well. You see that girl living at our junction? I've been dating her for the past two years and my wife doesn't know anything. I never talk to the girl directly. The girl's mom is our 'betweener.' Just look sharp that's all.” My Dad; "So that girl you approached the other night, how far?". My Dad: "You took her number and you didn't call? Just give me her number.” Immediately when my dad left, I asked him, "Who's that girl? And how many women has he given you?" He answered, "Don't begin to think anything negative. You know your dad, he's a jovial person and everything he said was a joke." I asked him, "Do I look like someone you can lie to and get away with it? Should I begin to tell you everything I heard?". I told her, "Mom do you know dad goes out with my husband to look for girls. They've been chasing small small girls when we were home sleeping." My mom burst out laughing. She said, "Now you know why the two of them stick like two peas in a pod? I know your dad. I've been able to live with him all these years because I know him. Now go and cage your husband. As for my husband, he destroyed his cage long ago so he could roam free.” I told my husband to break every friendship he had with my dad; "Don't even pick his calls. He's a bad influence." Trust men to always be men, they both designed a new way to meet. My husband told my dad he couldn't meet him over the weekend because he didn't know what to tell me. My dad told him, "You don't have to tell her anything. Try and find a reason to pick a fight with her. Any reason at all. Get angry and storm out of the house. That's all.” Source | Summary